All of you are giving out of love, from the heart. Sometimes we don't always know when a quilt we make and give away ends up. Sometimes they are recycled, re-gifted, etc. and an unintended person receives it and it may be the best thing they ever had. Cricket, sounds like over-worked and exhausted from all you are doing. Your gifts of love for others may have become gifts of burdens to you.
Please step back and re-evaluate that a few gifts may be more important than a large quantity.
Jesus said, "When you enter a home or town and you are not received, shake the dust off your feet and go on."