Oh dear .. I think we all have experienced that at one time or another in real life or even in the virual world. So all I can offer is: find a few good books, a neighbor that quilts, a family member that quilts: and learn all you can. Some people resent sharing their "expertise", but we all were "beginners" at some time and still are beginners at other items.
I am teaching a 68 year old woman who can sew the most gorgeous wedding dresses but has never quilted in her life. I am also teaching my DGD's how to sew, quilt and crochet. I am a believer of passing on something I have learned all through my years of self learning through books, trial and error and then learning from others. To pass on knowledge is the greatest thing I can do.
IF I can do anything to help you out; pm me and we'll chat .. Please, don't give up due to the lack of consideration of others.