Jeanne,
I think you're putting too much pressure on yourself over this. I did a barn quilt for a lady from Great Britain who wanted it shipped to her best friend in Washington State, as a surprise. She wanted it to arrive during her visit with her friend. Her friend loved it. I also did one for someone from Virginia for a good friend of her's. The result was the same. It is a true act of kindness and shows how strong friendships are! I look forward to hearing from you soon.
Dave