I've done it both ways. One girl (gym instructor) didn't say much at first but when she read the label and realized it was for her she was very happy. I have had people cry tears of happiness with both ways too. I love watching the kids with theirs. One grandson put his around his shoulders and was using it like a king's robes. His father said "get it off the floor" but I said "leave him be, I'd much rather see it worn with love. If he wears it out I'll make him another". That's opposed to someone letting the dog use it. If the dog needs a quilt just ask and I'll make one for him/her too.