Wow! My daughter is getting married in a few months and are wanting to buy a home but to ask for money as wedding gifts? No! Even though they have lived together for 7 yrs as he was scared of marriage, they have everything they found things for their registry! You always can use glasses, towels or a few small appliances! Just give a small monetary donation as they are neighbors. maybe you will get to know them in the future and be glad you did!