At work the other day a young gal asked me if you have to work very hard at being married. She just lives with somebody and when it's over she moves on. I wonder what that generation is going to have when they get older? I told her marriage is not just based on love. It is also based on commitment to staying married. Some times the love part gets tough and the commitment has to hold things together until the love kicks back in... LOL I told her girls want a relationship and will do sex to get the relationship. Guys just want sex and will take a stab at relationship to get the sex. If there is no commitment things blow apart pretty fast. Love can last a life time... lust 2 years max.