Is it possible to ask the couples what they would like? I rarely make for the younger generation and was hurt by my daughter's comment after all the stuff I made for her kitchen tea (she has learnt from her now husband to put a dollar value on gifts) she thought a gift of some plastic ware was more valuable. Needless to say the quilt I was making as a wedding gift wasn't given. Her husband proclaimed to one and all at the wedding rehearsal that couples today want money, grrrr