Tessagin, I am so sorry you had that awful experience. Sometimes Christians are their own worst enemy. Those ladies were definitely not following Jesus' teachings that can be read in Matthew telling us how to lead a Christian life. I hope you can find a group that is close by and accepting of all people. FYI, I have quit going to my church's quilting and women'd groups. Too rigid. A group will help you get your mind off things, so I hope you find one soon.