gonna be 49!? you're still wet behind the ears! I'll be 61 in April and like she said-every day that I'm on this side of the turf is an opportunity. life relaxes, the grandkids are a bundle of love and hugs and giggles and your kids finally get it. and they admit to being confused as to why we didn't just blow a gasket with some of their antics. life is just as poor but now I can stress less about it.