hey Kif, i'll take some extra if you got it!!! I used to do security in an adult home, and we had a few like your dh. My son is a cook in an adult home. I love the stores he tells about the people there. I enjoyed it, but I was working 4 jobs at 102 hrs a week and could barely stay awake. I guess that's why I can't sleep now. everyone, I need a project to work on at night. all of you put your heads together and come up with something. thank you