Please feel free to state what you want from the Quilt Club/Guild when you attend. Raise your hand and tell them you would like a mentor/quilting pal, and what would cause you to join the guild. Most of all, be willing to participate. Ask questions, make suggestions, use the library if they have one. People do tend to stick to the friends they are comfortable with but if you ask, they will usually take you in and give you the help/fellowship you need. We cannot read your mind. Our guild meets monthly and show and tell is a big thing for ideas and assistance. We have very simple treats, a good library, and help is available if we know what you want. There is also a group that meets two Wednesday afternoons a month and they make charity quilts. This is a great place for newbies to get started. It's free and your attendance is appreciated. Also a good place where there are fewer people so it's easier to get acquainted with others. Don't give up. A good guild is a wonderful place!