Yep, I have been there and done that, too! Personally, I think they should be called Quilt Cliques! I've ranted about my experience before, so won't do it again, but I so totally agree with those who have had bad experiences with guilds.
And Sandygirl, you can say it is up to the new member to get to know others ... well, when you go time after time after time, try to speak to people, try to integrate yourself with the group, etc. and still feel unwelcome ... trust me, these cliques are tighter than they were in high school! I've always been outgoing, quick to volunteer time and money, but trying to break into some guilds is like trying to break into Fort Knox!
I'll get off my box now.
Originally Posted by
Tippysmom
I left a group like the ones you all have described. Everyone had their own friends, and when I was assigned to a committee, the other members took it over completely, any of their ideas and suggestions were applauded, while mine were ignored.
I will think long and hard before I join another.