I like the idea of offsetting the seams, sort of like a brickwork or subway tile layout. Sashing can be tricky for a new quilter, I think, because of the long narrow pieces.
The great thing is that "wonky" quilts are in vogue right now, so just say you deliberately made it that way and nobody will ever know!
And don't worry about your foxes touching, I think your layout is just fine. The baby will love it!