Well, I'm a mom. Had a little help there too, but does that make me not a mom? Don't think so.
I also enjoy piecing the quilt top, but do not enjoy the actual quilting process. So, I tell people I'm a topper. I also like to attach and finish the binding, so I guess I'm a binder too. Last but not least, I am a quilter! I do make quilts. Maybe with a little help, but they are my idea, my color choices, often my original design. I piece the tops, have the care to have someone quilt them well, and then I finish them. Makes me a quilter in my mind.