I bought my mom's Nolting when her health became an issue. I was a little intimidated at first too but mom was there with advice and encouragement. Now, I would like to upgrade the machine to one with a computer. It is a very basic machine but sews beautifully. I do understand how you feel. Nine years ago, I went to a Pfaff event at my Pfaff dealers store and came home with a Pfaff 2144. I let it sit for about a month and ten finally decided that I better learn to use it. The first payment came due and I didn't want it to become a very expensive paperweight. Now I love it and would like to upgrade this one too. Give yourself time and use your machine a little each day. You will get the hang of it.