I can't believe someone could be so cruel to do that to you. If they do not want to take the chance that something may happen and that they won't get their stuff on time-then I don't think that they should participate if it is that big of a deal . If they can't accept the fact that you are human and things happen then there is something really wrong with them. There are alot of really nasty illnesses going around this winter that if you don't take care of them-they get really bad really fast. I hope you will reconsider when you are feeling better. I love this swap and I think you do a great job owlvamp. I think that sometimes people don't realize how much time goes into these things-and you volunteer to do it out of the goodness of your heart. I hope you get feeling better soon and that you will reconsider.