I am sorry for your loss in the last 6 years i have lost 2 uncles and my grandmother all whom i was very close too and I still can't bring myself to go to the cemetery it hurts too much. I have a shelf in my living room on my entertainment center that is devoted to my grandma and has some of her things and a couple of pictures on it. I talk to her picture all the time. My heart goes out to you and your family.
I also found this site that may help you .
http://www.forevergreenquilts.com/me...uilt-tips.html LOL, Julie