I am not happy unless my house is clean. I like things to be clean and tidy. But I also want it to be a home. So my rule is if you make a mess clean it up. Don't leave it for someone else to do. But if you want to have a hot cup of tea or coffee and eat cookie and watch TV it doesn't bother me. Take your shoes off and make your self at home! Just don't leave me a mess to clean up later.