I'd suggest contacting a group in your area or in his. I know our local group puts a priority on awarding quilts to veterans who are older or who are in ill health. We also have a very nice ceremony for awarding the quilts - it can be done in a group setting (where usually 16 or 18 or more are awarded) or in a private setting (such as the veteran's home). If you decide to make one yourself, there are volunteer quilters across the country who will provide the batting and the quilting for you. I believe they are a little short-handed right now, but it's quite possible that a local group may be able to connect you with someone and get it done fairly quickly. Good luck!