How many quilts do you need? Oh my, just tell dh it's not the amount, but how much time it utlilizes that keeps you from nagging on him to get things done. Lets see, how often does he go out, how often do you sew stc. He has his thing, you have yours and together you have mutual activities that keep for a healthy marriage. Of course, you can explain to him that you can take the money invested and the time and go buy clothes, go on vacation, go play around, drink etc. He may like you better the way you are and what you are doing.