I have 4 grand kids that live with me, the oldest is 14 and he has lived with me his whole life besides about 8 months, during those 8 months he was ready and waiting for me to pick him up on friday nite and keep him for the whole weekend! The youngest is only 2 months old, their mother has moved back in and is caring for him, we pretty much take care of the other 3, I work full time and my husband is there when they get off the school bus and watches them until late sometimes when i get home, to tell you the truth, i dont know what i would do without them, now my daughter is planning on getting married again and taking them (within the next year) Im almost positive that the oldest will not be willing to go, and i wont let her make him. I would be lost if i lost "my kids"