Originally Posted by
Iceblossom
I would simply talk to them -- you like having them there but you also like having things to do. So, are there things that you already do that maybe they'd like to do too? ..................
Exactly .... ask the kids!
They're old enough to know what they want to do.
Sure, you may have some suggestions, but holding back on that front is often better at truly finding out what they want, rather than being suggestive and them accepting by default to keep Grandmamama happy!
While your DGD is not interested in quilting, you may find she is interested in the same skillset, to learn to sew, etc.
Then there is always ... hey kids, would you teach Grandmamama this? or that? Perhaps something computer, like zoom (if you are not already set up for that), or let them teach you a program or WHY. Or the artwork DGD likes? Or DGS teach you something via his athletic abilities.
Most importantly ......... Have Fun!!!!!!!!!