Hav4boys, God bless you for pushing through and staying strong through multiple family illnesses. I want to say don't worry about us, but I can only speak for myself. I have not seen that my ornament has arrived but there is still time. Cherish this time of family and ask mom all of the questions you can think of about her childhood, family and life as a young woman. I wish I had done more of that before my father passed. Praying for grace and peace for you and your family.