My grandparents and I use to do that on Memorial Day. Two differnet cemetaries and 6 grave sites. My grandmother told me all she wanted was the grass to be cut nice. When grandpa passed away we had a double monument with both names birth dates on grandpa's. and birth date of grandma's. My cousin was all upset when she grandma's name. Our grandma just laughed, and told her now everybody knew how old she was. I can go to the grave sites. and there are my grandparents, great grandparents, and great-great grandparents. None of the men are related its the women by blood. I made sure that my kids know how and who were related. Both the cemetaries take very good care of the grass, and they have rules of where you put the flowers, and how long they can be there or will be taken off.