So true! I have two grandsons, and they are different as night and day. The older one is kind and considerate, but also really private and flies below the radar. The youngest will be 16 tomorrow, and we have always been joined at the hip. I seem to be his person, his shelter, he confides in me, and truly has made me know the definition of unconditional love. He's not opposed to asking for what he wants, and will say I don't have to get it for him, but would like it if I did. They both are grateful for everything I have given them, but have never expected it. They sure are gems and I'm lucky to have them!