I'm with BearIsGray on this one.
IMHO, this is a very risky task to take on, GardenGirl1331.
Not just for the age and fragility of this quilt, but by whom you have been asked.
From what you said, you have no true trust/confidence/relationship with this person.
To me, that also says, you don't know how sincere she was about your decisions and the outcome.
She clearly did not say to you ... Here's the quilt. I don't want it. Do as you want, as it will mean more to you. I never want to see it again!
It's risky! If she is not happy with the results, there may be more hard feelings than you would like, want or need. And more familial distance created, despite your best efforts.
While your ♥ may be in it for your Grandmother, I would caution you to really think ... is it worth it?
Good Luck ... whatever your decision is.
Last edited by QuiltE; 06-27-2023 at 03:39 PM.