I'm so sorry you are experiencing this. It is hurtful when you put so much effort, time, and money into a project, then see it sitting in a closet. I am in the, if they don't ask for it, I don't make it boat. I made one of my grandsons a baby blanket, to this day I'm pretty sure Mom has no idea where it is, or if she even still has it, she didn't ask me to make it, I took it upon myself to make it, lesson learned. It was a crib size to grow in to a toddler bed, 2.5 inch squares, lots of work and love. I have just recently made a full, and a twin for two of my grandkids, for their new bedrooms for when they move into their new home. These were requested. Otherwise, no one in my family has a quilt I have made, and no one has asked for one. I still find plenty of projects to make and to enjoy my hobby, but they are donated to places where I too feel the recipient will appreciate them.