I am lucky. I spend as much time as I want sewing and if it's time for dinner, DH will cook and come ask me if I want any! Every now and then I feel guilty and spend an hour or so cleaning. Then I go back to quilting! Our guild had a mini retreat this last weekend. My DD was in Washington, D.C. competing at National VFW Voice of Democracy and DH spent most of his time on the ranch. So I didn't feel guilty at all with 3 days of sewing with the girls!