God bless you, and I know you have your hands full. I took care of my Mom with Alzheimer's the last few years of her life, and I know that disease is as hard on the caretakers as it is the victims.
That alone would be a hand full, but your FIL, too? I know it has to be hard, but you will never regret it.
Your quilts are beautiful. I love the one you did for your Mom with the embroidered blocks, especially.
Your whole family is blessed to have you.
Will keep you in my prayers,
Nancy