Originally Posted by MadQuilter
It sounds like your sister is fighting her inner demons and if she pushed her sponsor away, she could most likely be sending the message that she does not have the desire to be clean and sober. At that point, the sponsor cannot help her (because she does not want to help herself) and she does not live within the guidelines of the AA fellowship. Here's some reading on the subject:
http://www.aa.org/pdf/products/m-24_aafactfile.pdf
MadQuilter: Very good answer. You are so right.
Naturalmamma: Your sister already knows how to find another sponsor if she wants one. That is something learned at their first meetings. Some have more than one sponsor. May I suggest Al-a-non for you. It is a program for family and friends of alcoholics/drug addicts. It is a program for people who are affected by another person's drinking. You can find a meeting near you by looking in your local phone book under Al-a-non or by doing a search online. Good luck to you and your sister.
Linda