I met my wonderful husband Larry about 4 years ago, It was on a phone chat line. I was actually writing a book n all the bums out there (I'm 50 now). He had answered one of my many ads saying, "I think I'm just what you're looking for". I laughed and met him anyway. He was sooo nice, not my typical guy, a bit nerdy, but then again, nerdy guys appriciate what they have and have less of a tendency to cheat. He needed some polishing up here and there, I met his wonderful family who love me like a daughter and my 20 yo son as their own grandson. We're buying a condo in a few weeks, and I get my own sewing room. Keep looking everyone. good luck.