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    Old 04-21-2011, 02:59 PM
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    Originally Posted by SWChick
    Tru don't know what your sister did but I know how you feel. I have a brother that the more miles we have between us the better things are. He left NM after my fathers death knowing our mother was in bad health. Left his sons behind too. Now he and his fouth wife have moved in on my nephew and his wife. Been there a month now expecting to be waited on, but not doing or paying thing. This son that he signed his rights over to me 19 years ago. Looks like I am going to have to go to Muskogee and run his a.. I mean butt off. He is not taking the hints they are giving him, like , get a job, finf a place to live. There are no good quilt shops there but I may still have to go.
    What she has done is beyond comprehension!!!!!!!!!!Not just to me but my daughter. This I will tell you she took it upon herself to get power of attorney while my daughter was in ICU. My sister told the media my daughter had no parents she was all alone. I could go on and I but it will make me cry. She will rot in hell forever. The one good thing is since I am NOT going to hell I will never have to see her again.
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    Old 04-21-2011, 03:13 PM
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    Tru, I know this will be hard, but forgive her and the rest of your family. You don't have to like, love, or even claim them as family, but if you forgive them, you will find peace. Your hate for them gives them power over you; when you forgive it severs the ties they have.

    I apologize if I stepped over the line. But, your happiness and peace are what I wish you. Carol
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    Old 04-21-2011, 03:36 PM
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    Originally Posted by CAROLJ
    Tru, I know this will be hard, but forgive her and the rest of your family. You don't have to like, love, or even claim them as family, but if you forgive them, you will find peace. Your hate for them gives them power over you; when you forgive it severs the ties they have.

    I apologize if I stepped over the line. But, your happiness and peace are what I wish you. Carol
    DITTO do not give them power take it back. Is your daughter OK now??
    So sorry this happened.
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    Old 04-21-2011, 03:44 PM
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    Carol I know you are right however I even told my therapist this. As I do the stations of the cross each day I think to myself while I read the 12th station "Father forgive them as they do not know what they are doing." But then I think to myself they do know what they have done. The destroyed my life and my childrens. They lied cheated and stole from us. Not a few hundred $ or a few thousand they stole over $40,000 yes over 40 thousand dollars. It was actually close to 60 but I stopped counting at $40,000. It was bonds my dad left for me and my kids. Not savings bonds they were different, the were kind of like stocks and in our names. I live below poverty level my sister has 2 home and 2 cabins. Since she took power of attorny when Joyce was in ICU $ is gone from donations for Joyce's medical care. I can not forgive them and I will not rest peacefully until they are dead.
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    Old 04-21-2011, 03:45 PM
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    Originally Posted by Quilting Nana

    DITTO do not give them power take it back. Is your daughter OK now??
    So sorry this happened.

    No........my daughter will never be OK. I wrote a few pages back she will be having another surgery May 18 that is #6.
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    Old 04-21-2011, 03:48 PM
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    Originally Posted by Quilting Nana

    DITTO do not give them power take it back. Is your daughter OK now??
    So sorry this happened.

    No........my daughter will never be OK. I wrote a few pages back she will be having another surgery May 18 that is #6.
    Tru I would like to read them are they on this thread?
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    Old 04-21-2011, 04:13 PM
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    Originally Posted by Quilting Nana
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    Originally Posted by Quilting Nana

    DITTO do not give them power take it back. Is your daughter OK now??
    So sorry this happened.

    No........my daughter will never be OK. I wrote a few pages back she will be having another surgery May 18 that is #6.
    Tru I would like to read them are they on this thread?
    I have a PDA you could read everything there. There is also a link to 24 graphic pictures of her. june 14 is the 2 year anniversary since she was injured. Below is a link for a quilt that is posted on my PDA so you don't have to search for my PDA if you want to read it.
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    Old 04-21-2011, 04:15 PM
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    Here is the link to the birthday quilt for my future D-I-L. I made the pillow yesterday.

    http://www.quiltingboard.com/t-34728-79.htm#3082160

    I think you have to scroll up not scroll down.
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    Old 04-21-2011, 04:23 PM
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    Tru that quilt is beautiful. She is so going to love it.
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    Old 04-21-2011, 04:40 PM
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    thanks Carrie.
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