Fanbox?
#11
If I recognized the name but not the site, I would contact the person in some other fashion to ask if they sent the link. I did this with an email sent to me from a friend and that was how she found out her email had been hacked.
#14
I don't open any e-mail from strangers. If they don't know my name then I don't open their mail. I get things all the time from people but they don't even know who I am. That means it's just spam. They sent the same thing to everyone on their list.