I think your father owes you an apology. To receive such a gift from his own child is an honor and, no less, your first that regardless of how it turned out, he should have thrown his arms around you in thanks.
You did nothing wrong. It came out beautiful and you should be proud. I know it hurts, but don't let it lessen your love for quilting and I'm sure the next thing you give to someone, will be truly appreciated.