Sounds like my grand-daughter who would not use anything that even seemed a bit traditional. Her burp cloths were camo and a racing car material. The quilt I made for the baby turned out to be a from a material with a racing car pattern and some fireman motif(homage to grandpa), but almost all NASCAR stuff. Not a suggestion, but an example of what new, non-traditional parents are using. The traditional gifts to the baby went bye-bye. I would definitely get the parent's approval before I spent the time and money or it may end up at Goodwill.