...hubby called me every day asking me to come home (I went on a Wed came back on Sun)
I can see calling every day, but when he knows you are with your family and you only get to see them once a year, why would he keep asking you to come home? Is it a control issue? I think you need to go. The boys too if possible, I know your folks would want to see the grandsons! I do realize that jobs are scarce, but life is fragile, things happen. Do not let this be an "I should have gone" or an "if only I'd have known" moment in your life! Go, enjoy, return with a happy heart!