so sorry ,I know how you feel. when I married my first husband we had little money so I crocheted my mom a king size quilt out of granny squares and she never put it on her bed an never said anything except you should have done this or that. this was about 25 years ago, about 15 years ago she gave it back and said I think you should take this back I have no use for it. I have it stored away for my youngest daughter when she has a place of her own. i love my mom but I do not make her anything i just give her money. Her lose, my daughters gain....