been there, too. i made a twin size for a neice for high school graduation. shipped it over several states to get to her. that was about 5 yrs ago, no comment from her or from her parents. i just hope whoever has it is happy using it. guess we don't see all sides of people, even when we think we "know" them. sad part is -- i'm debating with myself whether to send one to her sister for graduation next year. (my hubby says not to --- but that punishes her for her sisters rudeness.)