I have an LG top-load HE washer (no agitator) and am happy with it. It has a bedding/bulky setting, for when I want a tub full of water. It has a "pause/unlock" button, if I want to add something. If I want just a bit more water but not a tub full, I wash on "casual" setting.
You just have to weigh the merits of each machine, rather than the HE factor alone. It's getting harder and harder, to find a quality machine that
isn't HE.
Before you buy any of them, look up reviews and feedback, from folks who already have that particular model.