I agree with GailG - since I retired 4 years ago - I wonder when I will really feel like I am retired. It seems something comes up all the time. Both my husband & I have different commitments with volunteering, etc. but after this year - we are going to use the word "No thank you" once in a while. Grandkids have events that we want to take in and "have" to take them in. We are also getting ready for an auction to get rid of 49 years of "stuff" (aka junk). We live on a farm so have sheds to clean out, a big attic - you get the picture. It will be work and whatever we have left after auctioneer commission, advertising, etc. is strictly"fun" money for us. It will be such a good feeling when it is done - and I hope our kids appreciate it someday!