You could use Kathryn Kerr's site for Farmer's Wife/Dear Jane style blocks, too. It is free to use.
https://kathrynkerr.com/365-challenge-quilt/ There is a thread here in QB with pictures on what folks are doing.
I am very sorry for your loss. It is hard and I know of no fast way to get over the loss. But we are here for you if you want to talk.