I'd have to ask someone what caused the sudden ruffles. Do I smell? Did I offend in any way? Did I say something wrong? (That one is a always a possibility for me - teehehe) It means having to accept and deal with the answer - whatever it may be. Then I can decide:
1. Did I do the thing I am accuse of or was it a misunderstanding?
2. If I did the thing I am accused of, did I mean to?
3. If I didn't mean to, am I willing to change or can those people just kiss my lilly-white hiney and leave me well enough alone?
Just think of this: We are all here - this motley crew of quilters and crafters from all walks of life and all levels of ability and we make it work!