Originally Posted by nursie76
Originally Posted by Baren*eh*ked_canadian
No, I totally understand. And I know many ppl have been in similar situations with ppl who HAVE been abusive, so they're just trying to help.
I guess I was afraid that either he would be angry that I'm reminding him of what a stupid ticket it was, and how much we totally cannot afford that crap, you know, opening an old wound, or that he would feel that I was accusing him of doing something wrong (which I guess I was, but really, I didn't care about the ticket, I was just upset that he hadn't told me when it happened)
I think you handled it perfectly, and as you say, you didn't care about the ticket really, just that he hadn't told you when it happened. It sounds like he understands that now, so all is good :thumbup: Ya know, sometimes I just don't think guys get it...from our perspective. Guess it's a "guy" thing :wink:
I agree; you did a good job of handling the situation.