This is such a sad string of replies. There is something to learn from this though.. All of us who have been hurt and rejected ought to make sure we are the first ones to be welcoming and kind to everyone we come in contact with. Not only in our guilds, but in our stores, and malls and banks and gas stations. We are all just trying our best with what we have today. I sometimes wonder what ever happened to make someone be like they are. We don't come mean and ugly, nasty words have to be learned. I am so sorry so many have been hurt. If you come to our guild, look for me, I'm always looking for someone who has just walked in. I promise to introduce you to some others that will be glad you're there. I'm sorry rudeness has come into fashion. I'm afraid it will get worse, rudeness and worse is all that's on tv and that's what the little kids are growing up on.