It is sad that grown women act like they are in high school. I belong to a sewing group and it is ok. At first it was more friendly and fun. There are things they talk about or go to and never ask me as I'm the newcomer although it has been a couple of years. I'm not the best quilter but I hold my own. I almost stopped going because in conversation I felt left out but I enjoy getting out and there are some women that don't come every time but when they do it is a lot more fun so I just go hoping one of them will be there. Some act like it is their club so maybe next year I will find another place to go. I live in a remote area so it isn't easy to find a group. Then I think hey who are you??? and just go and ignore the coldness and enjoy.I figure it ticks them off more when a couple of us outsiders come which makes me smile!!!