It's amazing to me that some people can be so rude, so clannish and judgemental to newcomers ... we've ALL been out of HIGH SCHOOL for YEARS now !!
DON'T GIVE UP on finding another bee or guild to visit, and try another class & see how it goes !
I quit going to the big guild here a few years ago because if you didn't go to EVERY meeting and volunteer for EVERYTHING, they acted like you didn't exist. I work full-time & travel some, I couldn't devote that kind of time. Some of those "super-doers" just couldn't understand that ! Now I go to a local evening group when I can, and it's a LOT more fun ...
Quilting (or any hobby) should be our RESPITE from STRESS - NOT stress-inducing !!
So leave those snotty ladies in your rear view mirror !! :)