Most quilt stores I have been in have been wonderful no matter how they organized their fabric. I did go in one in Nashville TN last August that was disorganized and a mess. My friend and I left, didn't even want to look.
In my dreams, I would love the good fabric to be less expensive. I like the loyalty programs too. My LQS is not returning after the last hurricane, so I have been on the look out for another. Friendliness is one of my top priorities. I have found one about 25 miles away that I think will be my store. I tend to buy the bulk of my fabric at one store but I like to visit around also.