Jerrie, I'm a widow, 62, and had gastric "sleeve" done Feb 8. Had discussed with my husband and he fully supported my decision. Took me 2 years (after his passing) to have it done. This was an informed life-changing decision. Was not morbidly obese, but not happy in my body. I've stopped thyroid, cholesterol medicine. Was on verge of diabetes and that's gone. Once my weight is down, I WILL have surgery to remove skin.. if needed. I'm not a vain person, just want a healthier body going into my later years. My mom is 87 ... I want to be live to be 115, slim and pert !! Go for it. It's your life, your body. God Bless. Send me private message and I'll share more details.