Yeah this kind of thing makes you sick inside. But, daddy use to advise us not to dwell on the "maker's' bid". He said when you give it it isn't yours any longer and heart and honesty of the receipient is in the hands of HIM. So, don't hang on to what isn't yours, even the intent and resolve isn't ours, ya know??? but don't you just wish she'd walk by with a loose shoelace. There is forgiveness for everything, almost! almost.
Blessings, Ruth