Did you pity party help? We've all been there. When my DD was born we live in a tiny, tiny trailer. Her bedroom was a niche in the hall. Had to buy a special crib to fit the spot. I was not the fabric collector that I am now. Each house my sewing room/studio got bigger and better. I lost a 2 bills recently and didn't know until I got the gentle reminder. How embarrassing was that for me. Had the money, still don't know what happened to the bills.